Sunday, April 12, 2026

Iz u a boy? or Iz u a girl?

Suppose you're a high school teenage boy and you see a cute girl in one of your classes. She's not beautiful, but she's cute enough and she makes really good comments when the teacher asks questions and she interacts well with some other kids so you want to get to know her a little better and you find yourself paying a little more attention trying to figure out if you can become friends or not. She notices you looking at her and she smiles at you so you screw up the courage to talk to her and ask her a couple of questions. 

At first it's all about stuff the teacher has been saying and other things surrounding class assignments then she asks you about what hobbies you have, what kind of movies you like and what books you like to read. One day seemingly out of nowhere she asks if you'd like to watch the track and field event that afternoon after school. You're a little surprised. Kids talk about the football and basketball games and sometimes they mention the school baseball team, or soccer, but track and field? That's unusual. She says she loves to watch the pole vault and high jump competitions the most. You enjoy her company even if track and field isn't something you really care about so yeah, let's hang out together after school and watch track and field. It's kind of fun watching the competitions taking place around the track. Not many people come to watch, but you are surprised to find that you actually do enjoy watching the different events. 

After that you go on a few 'dates' together. She likes the beach so you spend some time watching the waves and people surfing. Standing on the pier one afternoon watching the sunset she takes you by the hand and pretends to be a palm reader and reading your fortune and telling you what you're going to be in life. She's a little crazy, but funny and creative. You are enjoying her company so much that you start going to some movies or to a fast food joint to  get a hamburger and just talk. 

Things are going pretty well for awhile and you even hold hands sometimes when walking or talking together, but she never wants to hold hands at school. Then one day a friend comes up to you, "Hi Jake!," You say as a greeting and then he gives you a  gut punch you never would have expected in a million years, "Dude, are you gay?" Where did that come from? "Dude I am not gay!" 
"Whatever man, people say you've been hanging out and holding hands with Sandy."
"Wait! Sandy's a girl." 
"No dude, Sandy transferred here from another school. Sandy's a BOY! Man you've been holding hands with a boy. Have you kissed him yet...?"

That's it for that kid. He doesn't want to be cruel, but he's not going to ever look at another girl for at least a couple of years. It's about the best way I can think of to destroy a civilization. Teenagers hate to be embarrassed and that scenario is very embarrassing. There have been a few instances where the injured party, the one who was tricked into thinking he was dating a girl, has actually physically attacked the party pretending to be the opposite sex and the pretender was violently assaulted and in a couple of instances they were killed. 

How does encouraging people to change their gender from one to the other help our society? First of all it's not possible. It simply cannot be done. A person can change their appearance not their gender. About 99 percent of the time the day a baby is born it is obvious what gender the baby is. The result is either a boy or a girl. Most of us knew the difference between a boy and a girl by the time we were three years old. Any serious student of human biology knows that no one is assigned a gender at birth. Gender is known long before the day a child is born. Ever hear of a 'Gender Reveal' party? Blue for a boy and pink for a girl? I've never heard of a yellow or a purple balloon at a gender reveal party. 

The only way that is possible is because gender is not a state of mind. There really is a biologic difference. It's how the human race survives. Screwing with that is how societies die. You don't have to believe that we need two genders to survive, but it will always be a fact. Male and male will always equal no future and the same goes for female. Until 1973 homosexuality was considered a mental disorder. Bravo! What else could it be? And was it taken out of the American Psychology Association journals not because of a new scientific discovery? No, it was removed by political pressure. Scientific knowledge regarding basic human biology wa supplanted by basic human lust. And so the slippery slide began. Same sex attraction was very much frowned upon in America before that. So much so that people with that affliction kept it to themselves. It was hard for homosexuals to meet people with their same attraction. People were afraid to approach each other and confess their desire except in places like bars that catered to prostitutes and criminals. 

In a few short years movies began to appear that didn't make homosexuality an acceptable lifestyle, but created characters who were sympathetic. On screen the directors and writers could create situations in which people, usually young people, could  confess their attraction and plead for help in handling the situation. Those situations led to accusations of bigotry against people who couldn't accept homosexual attraction. Eventually, slowly the homosexual community began to gain more acceptance by using emotional appeal. Over the next couple of decades society began to accept the notion that same gender attraction existed and we had to accept it and allow people to 'be who they are'. It took longer for people to accept public displays of affection like holding hands or kissing. Political pressure began to build mostly in the democrat party where people would claim no one can help who they fall in love with and 'who are you to tell people who they can fall in love with?' which really isn't the question they should be asking. The real question is who are they to turn reality into fantasy and confuse children into believing they may have been lied to about who they are? Actual gender confusion is real, mental gender confusion is wrong.   

In a pretty short period of time laws have been passed that allowed men to marry men and the same for women. About the same time laws were passed granting homosexuals the same 'rights' as minority groups and women. Non discrimination laws that prohibited workplace discrimination and guaranteed equal housing rights were extended to people suffering from same gender attraction. Now we've 'progressed' to the terms transgender and transsexual. It gets pretty murky at that level. Over the years homosexual morphed into same gender attraction and the term 'queer' was totally unacceptable. In the ever changing world of homosexuality we used the terms 'lesbian' for women and 'gay' for men. Then transgender, transsexual, and queer became totally acceptable with homosexuals accepting the term and even embracing it. Today they are referred to as LGBTQ and over the years they've added a nearly infinite collection of other combinations of vowels and consonants, but honestly isn't that enough? Lesbian Gay Bisexual (those who are attracted to both) Transgender and Queer. It's a lot to remember and it describes the same community; people who suffer from a mental illness that causes them to be attracted physically and mentally to people who are their same gender, also called same gender attraction. 

Today it is against the law to refuse to hire someone who is obviously a woman pretending to be a man or a man pretending to be a woman (a guy with a beard wearing a dress). Then it got really weird. In some states if a parent refuses to allow their child to undergo what is called 'gender affirming care' they can lose custody of their child in a child custody court case. If a boy in a public school wants to dress like a girl and be called a girl, including using a girl's name, the school is not allowed to notify the parents. Finally we are reaching a point where socially dating, which already has caused significant anxiety among some boys and girls since time began, has become even more scary since it is becoming increasingly difficult to know who's who, in too many cases adolescent boys are skittish about even talking to a 'girl'. 

Dating is becoming less frequent. Boys are staying home and playing video games or meeting at libraries. The goal of destroying America is coming to fruition. As soon as the enemies within can stop men and women from getting married and having kids America will be in a severe decline. It's population is already declining. Birth rates are not keeping up with death rates. Without immigration from foreign countries there won't be enough people to accomplish necessary labor. America needs people to fill positions at all levels. We need scientists and teachers and doctors and nurses and restaurants and people willing to work at every other level and American women are not giving birth at a sufficient rate. The face of America is changing. The language is changing. English is still the most common language, but in many areas English is barely spoken. Just in my area there is a city where all of the signs are in Korean, another where all the signs are in Spanish. A quick internet search revealed a comical observation that lgbtq "same sex couples have children at lower rates..." which shows just how much political power the same sex community has. The truth is that same sex couples don't "have children" at all without the help of the rest of the population. 

When I attended a public elementary school years ago I frequently heard teachers say, "Ok children, time to put on your thinking caps!" when we were either doing, or about to do, something stupid. For the benefit of those of us who were unfortunate enough to have democrat parents they took a few seconds to explain what the metaphor meant and how to make good use of it. My father was a JFK democrat who found something useful in both parties but didn't really like either one. So I say now to the hard core LGBTQ whatever supporters, "Ok children time to put on your thinking caps!" We have to emphasize the absolute fact that there are only two genders and that gender dysphoria occurs rarely but naturally in very few cases. When that occurs medical professionals and parents decide how to proceed. It happens at the time of birth and not when the child is eleven or twelve years old or older. It's important to emphasize that no one can change their gender. The only time gender confusion occurs is when people think they can change their gender then trick someone of their same gender into dating them. That is gender confusion and should be recognized as the crime of fraud. 

The only time the gender confusion promoted by the lgbtq crowd occurs is when a small group of people manages to manipulate other people into believing them by using an emotional appeal such as, "You can't help who you fall in love with!" when you really can. Why isn't confusing children so much that they don't know if they are a boy or a girl not considered child abuse? 

There are things in the universe we can depend on and the fact that all of us are born either male or female is the most important scientific fact there is. If you're confused about that it's because somebody confused you. Don't believe it. If you're a girl celebrate that and all the beauty it entails and if you're a boy celebrate that and all the beauty it entails. A couple of days ago I was at a local resort eating a hot dog and observing people around the pool when a couple of small children walked up to the locked gate a few yards ahead of their father who was a little slower being burdened with towels, toys, chairs and a cooler. The boy was about six years old and the girl was about four. The boy grabbed the bars and began violently shaking the gate and demanding that it open for him. The girl stood close by his side holding her towel and watching him. Pops was catching up saying, "Hold on! I'll be there in a couple of seconds!" We need boys and girls and moms and dads and we need to nurture them help them grow. Nobody made a mistake. There's nothing wrong with you. You are what you are so make the most of who you were meant to be. 

There is a God, listen to Him. He created all of us. If people tell you there is no scientific proof that God exists remind them that we are here and there's more scientific proof that there is a God than there is that God doesn't exist. We are created in His image. Male and female.